Dear God,
I hate myself for doing wrongs all the time. We’ve been together for so long, countless years, yet I still seek the company of other women and end up with one night stands all the time. God, can you find it in your heart to forgive me? Can you find a way for me to repent? God, I hope you are hearing. Broken Boy, Singapore
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June 20th, 2008 at 8:48 am
Men, always looking for something else…….
June 20th, 2008 at 6:16 pm
Just goddam STOP DOING THIS! I am an atheist but I know christian religion quite well, and if I am wrong, and the god DOES exist, he WILL punish you! Why? Because you only ASK HIM for things, don’t actually DO things! He wll look at THAT aspect, not at how much you pray and how much you show on websites like this one. YOU must change.
BTW “God, I hope you can hear this”
June 21st, 2008 at 12:02 am
Why be with someone … if you don’t want to be with that someone ?!
June 22nd, 2008 at 9:26 pm
If you really love and respect the woman that you are with, you would not cheat on her in such a way, and in such a candid fashion. Even if she has no idea, why are you polluting your relationship? If what you have with her is meant to be special, then treat it as such- don’t go around dipping your dipstick in as many ‘honeypots’ as you can find! If you’re going to just have one night stands all the time, you should probably just stop wasting this poor woman’s time, so that she can find someone who actually cares for her and treats her with the respect and loyalty that she deserves.
June 23rd, 2008 at 7:48 am
God will forgive you any time you repent for your sins. You only have to mean it when you tell Him you are sorry and if you ask Him to help you, He will. However, it’s up to you to discilpine your flesh and its lusts. Turn your life over to God & watch Him do great things with it!
June 27th, 2008 at 6:38 pm
you’ve taken the first step by acknowledging that you are in the wrong. i can’t tell you what your next step should be, but maybe it’s time you talked to her and told her what you’re facing and explain that you’re having troubles. if you’re truthful about the matter, it’ll take the load off your shoulders and if anything she might help you through it. i’m hoping that this will turn out for the best for you.
June 29th, 2008 at 3:10 am
God always forgives. We ALL sin ALL make mistakes and ALl do things that we need forgiveness for.
God loves you so much he gave his only son, who died for us all, so that you may be right with our Lord.
“In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that he lavished on us with al his wisdom and understanding” is from Mark 1:7 of the Bible
all you have to do is ask for it. and then, the hardess thing, forgive yourself.
im praying for you
July 3rd, 2008 at 6:14 pm
well i am man from texas and i am like you god forgive us for what we do. there is something that i cannot explain it there is something , that makes us do that is it just human nature or are we just horney as hell when you find the answer get back to me and tell me
July 11th, 2008 at 4:48 pm
Sounds like you are saying that you want to do the right thing yet you are doing wrong. And this is God touching your heart to convict your conscience. Whatever troubles you and makes your heart heavy~bring it to God , through Jesus Christ you are forgiven! If you ask the Lord to make His way straight before you, He will show you the right way to go and He will help you do the right thing . BELIEVE! And watch the Lord move suddenly. God Bless!
July 20th, 2008 at 1:19 pm
You’ve had enough of this crap, so just finish with it, do things which will actually lead to feeling happy and good about yourself and life, honest.
July 28th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
It may seem hard at first to pull yourself out of the sinful lifestyle you’re in, but if your heart wants it enough, you can! “Through God, all things are possible.”
Know that there is hope. As you look at your sin I’m sure it feels like your drowning and its just too hard to turn your life around. It may seem too deep into it to correct, but the truth is - its not.
Repent, pray and verbally share your sin with someone whom you trust and is a fellow Christian. (knowing this person is aware forces you too stay in line) If they are not the type to verbally check in with you, tell them to. Ideally i would say make this the person you are with & be honest with your wrong doings to them…but that in the end, up to you
You need to work on discipline. It may seem far to advance into the sin to stop but thats the lie the devil wants you to believe. I have fallen pray to that belief as well. One step at a time…one temptation at a time, say NO to your FLESH. The more I say no, the easier it is for me the next time and the next. This advice will not save your relationship, but hopefully encourage you to work on yourself and save you from the future hurt & pain your going to definitely feel if you continue down this dark path.
Good luck friend, I will be praying for you
July 28th, 2008 at 7:39 pm
If you wanna lose wight, stop hogging.
you want good grades, hit the books, slog your ass off.
you wanna see heaven, be forgiven, “feel” like a good person - stop screwing around.
There aint no shortcuts, buddy! get your act together, God aint gonna have any mercy on incorrigible cheaters like you.
August 12th, 2008 at 10:57 pm
I found your site on technorati and read a few of your other posts. Keep up the good work. I just added your RSS feed to my Google News Reader. Looking forward to reading more from you down the road!
September 4th, 2008 at 10:30 pm
Everyone is a little harsh. What you are doing is quite clearly wrong, and it can and already has done so much damage, but it’s clearly a product of something else.
You would be doing it if everything was all ok. You need to find out why you are so restless in the relationship and take action.
You are in an extremely bad position now. You have to stop. But will you tell your wife, and potentially ruin the relationship, but can you really not tell her?
I don’t know the answer to that. Doing the right thing, isn’t always the easiest.
It’s wrong what you did, but I still hope your ok. God forgives. You should be punished forever. Good luck.
October 2nd, 2008 at 8:15 am
You cannot possibly believe in God. Someone who TRULY believes God is watching and their eternal life is at risk would never do the things you do. It’s OK if you want to go on doing your own thing but don’t say you believe in God.