Dear God,
Please allow me to allow love back into my life in the form of an available person.
by that i mean…
sexually available. (not gay)
emotionally available (not a drug addict)
available available (not married and in a chat room)
age range available (not 20 years younger or older.
gender preference available (not a girl)
spirtually available (not a brianwashed” born again”)
I’m here. I’m keeping the walls down…the doors open.
but I need your help universe.
bring me an excellent man.
and by that, I dont mean santa claus or an astronaut, or brad pitt. oh.. and PLEASE non of the above.
I’ve been there. Weren’t those just learning experiences?
Well, I’m super smart now.
Bring me something real pretty please. .(..i promise ill be nice.)
Melissa Mcelrath - San Francisco/USA





July 25th, 2008 at 1:48 am
I feel you just read my mind…..
Aleluya!
Ps: Im super smart too.
-Mimi
July 27th, 2008 at 6:06 am
I know what that’s like. When I had finally given up completely and accepted the fact that I would never have someone in my life, along came the perfect girl (now my wife). I was almost angry about it for a bit, since I’d mutilated myself emotionally to just deal with the reality of love being an impossibility in my life. I wasn’t stupid about it, of course, and once again trotted off happily towards the slaughter. Only this time, it wasn’t. Wow. I hope you both get that, I really do. Be true to yourselves.
July 29th, 2008 at 3:03 pm
really honest, i like that.
: )
July 29th, 2008 at 3:03 pm
i think i know exactly how you feel.
“I Miss You” by Björk
i miss you
but i haven’t met you yet
so special
but it hasn’t happened yet
you are gorgeous
but i haven’t met you yet
i remember
but it hasn’t happened yet
and if you believe in dreams
or what is more important
that a dream can come true
i will meet you
i was peaking
but it hasn’t happened yet
i haven’t been given
my best souvenir
i miss you
but i haven’t met you yet
i know your habits
but wouldn’t recognize you yet
and if you believe in dreams
or what is more important
that a dream can come true
i will meet you
i’m so impatient
i can’t stand the wait
when will i get my cuddle?
who are you?
i know by now that you’ll arrive
by the time i stop waiting
i miss you
July 30th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
it just MADE MY LIFE to have this posted.
thanks for the super sweetie comments too.. all y’all.
this is my fave site hands down. especially now.
xom
August 4th, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Hey, it seems you are really talking to Santa Claus. You probabily want to talk to God, the perfect Being, the guy that created you from top to bottom, and all of us. I guess He’s the one who really knows the “perfect person” for you. So, you’d better read His “list”, and not show Him yours, cause….ummm…I guess… He knows best !!!
meaning..
keep on dreaming’, like we all do, but … get real when you have to !!
August 6th, 2008 at 7:35 pm
A brain washed born again?
I think thats funny but I guess thats the best man you can ever have. The universe won’t give you nothing, God will……….
Love your honesty though
August 23rd, 2008 at 5:27 pm
After being so jaded… I gave myself a chance with love and jaded someone too. Now I m just hoping I m ok with what God has waiting for me. I love ur list. and yeah I don’t need a pretty boy, just someone who is rite for me.
October 2nd, 2008 at 9:02 pm
Thank you Mellissa for putting into words (and more importantly on to this site) the silent prayer of the single person.
I found the comments you’ve had so far both uplifting and encouraging.
Good luck to you and I hope he’s listening and your prayer is answered!
Jeff
October 22nd, 2008 at 6:00 am
this is the text i would like to have wrote
I’m a super smart girl too
please dear god, listen to these really nice girls…
November 20th, 2008 at 11:02 am
Aren’t we all just praying for the same thing hahaha! Hopefully we’ll all be granted that blessing, cheers!
December 6th, 2008 at 6:52 am
oh god, i hope god won’t send us the same man. Dear god one man for each woman thank you
December 6th, 2008 at 11:30 pm
Dear god, It would also be nice if he was really hot, like george clooney. i would also like some candy and a mansion to live in.
God is not there to find a man for you. Go out and live life, dont be desperate and eventually you will meet someone who willl appreciate you for who you are and vice versa.
January 4th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
gosh george, read the prayer again….shes just asking god to bring her love. i dont think she wants it to be you or candy or a mansion…on the contrary, she just wants an” excellent man”. maybe you should google “excellent”. desperate? shes sounds busy actually..just with the wrong people. sound familiar?
February 11th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
I’ll say it every morning!….. WHERE IS HE!
February 19th, 2009 at 10:22 am
oh yeah same here (there should be at least two no?)
pretty please
please pretty please
i’ll wash my teeth three times a day
i promise