Dear God,
I’m not really a religious person but I don’t care, I found this website and so I’m going to use it. My girlfriend lives 6 hours away from me on the train…the last time I saw her was yesterday and already its killing both of us not being able to see each other again soon. I’m so in love with her it’s unbelievable, I’m 15, she’s 14 and already we’ve talked about a future together, it’s just…wow. To think we spent all of sunday afternoon and sunday night and monday morning together and then I had to leave her, I can talk to her over the internet, on the phone, anything. But, I just can’t see her right now, I just want to be there with her, for her to be in my arms again once again. I want to go see her tomorrow but i’m only going to end up spending a few hours with her and I would but i don’t want to leave her again. My parents didn’t even know I went to see her, they thought I was at my friends. I love her so much and just want to see her again soon, but I can’t. And to think it’s only been maybe 36 hours ish since I last saw her…this is going to be one hard relationship. Tom - EnglandShare:
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:54 pm
Aww … that’s cute
Your first serious relationship isn’t it?
September 5th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
This is cute and sweet…but you are way too young to feel this strongly. I’m not saying you don’t love her or that you two aren’t meant for each other - but you need to become something before you completely give yourself to someone like this. This infatuation exists because you don’t see each other often. The truth is, if you spent a week in one room together, you’d be crawling to get out at the end of the week.
You’re 15, man! You should be watching sports, talking about girls with your friends, trying to sneak in a drink of beer…not acting like a love sick 25 year old!
September 6th, 2008 at 12:28 am
You are not to young to feel this way. That is a ridiculous notion. You are perfectly capable of completely giving yourself to someone else. If you spent a week together in the same room it would probably be the best week of your life. I know this because I met my fiance when I was 14, and he was 15. We have been through so much together, and experienced a lot of our teenagehood together and there’s no way our relationship would be as strong as it is if I met him later on. He was everything I ever wanted when I met him, and he still is. I love him more than anything, no matter what we have to scrape through together.
Relationships are not easy, but if you both love each other strongly and are both committed to staying together, try to stay together and you will grow so close as a couple. Make sure you are always honest, loyal and you always tell her what’s on your mind. Try to make her happy. If you both do this you will be fine. Good luck!!
September 7th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
You are never too young to feel love. im only thirteen and ive never been in love but i believe its entirely possible just beacuase your older doesnt mean that you can love properly. some say youth is wasted on the young but loving is not wasting. i’m happy for you that you have found love at such a young age that i could only dream about. I wish you two good luck
September 8th, 2008 at 2:11 am
cherish these feelings. i wish you good luck as well.
September 14th, 2008 at 4:55 am
Rock on.
If you really want this girl you are going to have to be responsible with each other. The only people really allowed to act on these feelings are adults, and since you’re not one, you’re still going to have to play by your parents rules. This is just reality. If you care for her, really, with true goodness and intent for HER well-being, and she has the same for you, you will always respect each other’s families and hopes for the future.
I have a couple staying in my flat right now that are 24 years old, been married for 3 years and have been together for 9 YEARS… since they were your age. You can be who you want to be, love who you want to love.. just always make sure you present yourself THE BEST you can at ALL TIMES with yourself, her and both of your families. If you want to make a family together, you’ll need the support of the other people you love.
Stay safe and good luck.
September 14th, 2008 at 6:26 pm
I think that no one can ever be too young to be in love, and i think that its great that you are. But being in love shouldnt have to come with the sadness you feel when you arent together. If it isnt possible to be together for longer lengths of time than you already have, dont just let yourself be sad about it - instead spend the time feeling happy about what you have. Maybe you also need to find something else that you enjoy, that you can do to fill in the time when you arent with her, and that can distract you from feeling sad about her no being there with you.
September 15th, 2008 at 3:45 am
I do know you do love her and your heart aches, Just a little advice from someone who had many heart aches including a divorce, what I have learned from relationships is that unless it is one that is happy, healthy and one that has little stress or complications involved than it is going to be a rough one and probably not the right one. I know you hate my answer, I would too if I were you reading it right now, just a little advice, if your heart is always hurting and there are many obsticles in the way than usually it won’t work, I wish you the best and I know your pain, a friend.
September 17th, 2008 at 6:34 am
I personally think that it is awesome that you feel the way that you do. You are one of few that can say that they love honestly and truly and that in itself is a gift. Your age has nothing to do with it: you clearly know what you both want and you should go fot it whole heartedly. If you don’t, you’ll be trapped in the what-if bus your whole life. How depressing!!!
Good luck young one.
September 17th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
Love is difficult to find, so cherish these moments. Even the pain if it comes, because in these most emotional moments are the greatest points in our lives.
September 24th, 2008 at 5:06 am
No having is exquisite - you feel love for her even more because you can’t be together all the time - enjoy it!
Imagine eating ice cream - good - now imagine eating ice cream after being in the desert for a week - WOW!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Seriously, this is not the sort of Prayer you need to be asking for. Ask God to heal your heart, not to satisfy your cravings. This is not a healthy set of feelings. Love is a beautiful thing, but you are not ready, and she is DEFINATELY not ready. Give it two or three more years at the very least, and pray to God to help you become a better person rather than to get what you want.
September 27th, 2008 at 9:59 am
Say helllo to the palm sisters
September 28th, 2008 at 2:03 am
i know exactly what ur goin through… my love lives four hours away…i never get to see him…
Young love is tough…im only fourteen and my boyfriend is 16…
ur not alone in the world and sometimes i cry and beg the Lord to let me just see him one
more time…
i hope ur dreams come true
and also to the adults… young love is not puppy love nor is it the real deal…
its in the middle…
God Bless
Shannen
xx
October 3rd, 2008 at 4:55 pm
Hey man, i feel the same way about my girlfriend, she’s 15 and i’m 14 though, we live something like 8 hours away by plane… i know it’s real love because i spend every waking second thinking about her… i get maybe 4 hours of sleep a night, i can’t stand not talking to her.
Don’t get discouraged, true love will win.
October 23rd, 2008 at 9:21 pm
I don`t think this is a good ideea… I mean i had a relationship at 14 and a half, i stayed with the girl one year… It`s allmost 3 years from that relationship and i still want to be with her. But good luck to you and to your girlfriend.
October 29th, 2008 at 11:08 am
stay strong for all us young people.
if this is ment to be it will win out against all odds.
maybe tell your parents though mate. they could help you out with getting to see
her more.
god bless and good luck.
December 4th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
O wow, I know how you feel. My boyfriend and I live over 1500 miles away and we barely ever see each other. It doesn’t help that he’s in the United States Air Force and I’m a college student, so it’s not like we can just pack up and go visit the other person when we need it most. I just turned 18 and he just turned 20, but we already know that we’re going to spend the rest of our lives together. The next time we’ll see each other is in 2 weeks for holiday break. It’s only the third time we’ll be in the same state in 2008. But we are so in love it scares the hell out of me, and he asked me the other day what my ring size is… he’s going to propose! I don’t know what God has planned for me, but he’s been showing me signs for months that Chris needs to be in my life. I’m not sure what you’re supposed to do about your love, but the best and only advice I can give you is to pray, pray, pray! Pray for the answer to your questions and that you will have the open heart and mind to receive an answer from God.
Good Luck!!
December 8th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
I do know how you feel. I felt that once too. the first time I thought about my future, especially about marriage, is when i was in 8th grade. i wish i can marry my boyfriend at that time. but one time if you find another crush, another boyfriend, you will think about that too. can you understand what i mean? hmm. i think you’re just too young to tak about forever. but, believe me, if you are really serious and really love this girl, i know you both can walk along together through your way.
oh, I’m 15 too, from Indonesia
December 11th, 2008 at 12:40 am
it’s sweet wat u r goin through….i feel da same way u do wen it comes to my bf n me….only difference is im 21 n he’s 22….wat i wanna say is make the most of wat u’ve got….it’s fine thinkin about the future together but u guys have so much tym for dat….so try to work sometyn out n see her more often as u can…n enjoy every single moment with her….wen the tym is ryt im sure u will find a way of spendin forever with her….gud luck….im happy i found sumone who feels da way i feel….
December 17th, 2008 at 12:01 am
awww that’s so cute! maybe during the holidays you can spend a longer amount of time together. you really love her and even though you two are so far apart,your love for each other and hoe much you miss each other is making your relationship stronger!
good luck with everything!
January 23rd, 2009 at 12:38 pm
when i read what you wrote i felt liike i was reading what my boyrfriend and i were thinking about. i mean i understand where your coming from..i am IN THE SAME EXACT SITUATION. i have a boyfriend now for 6 months and we are DEEPLY in love i mean we talk about getting married in the futer..having kids..getting our own place - o ya and im 15 and hes 16- but anyways, like your relationship, me and my boyfriend BARELY see eacother . we hang out once a week and if were lucky twice a week. he lives reall far from me..its not that far but its still far. But even that we still have a stong connection. like when were apart from eacother we still feel like were with eacother you know what i mean. i know its hard dealing with this but at the same time you gotto know that your lucky to feel this way about a person and actually make the other person feel the same way you feel.. and if you love eacother the way u describe it to be then im sure u guys can try to hang out as much as you can. You never know u might BE a family one day..i think i should start taking my own advise, it kills you not to see the person you mostly adore and it also kills to loose that one person who understood and loves you for you.. so im goin to end this by saying keep trying dont give up and tell her u love her everyday.
peace…from your girl Leah…
Good luck.
April 5th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
many people feel like that. that is why they get married…
and then divorced.
dont get ahead of yourself kiddo; your only 15.
ps. its cute.. but weird.
though im pretty sure half the world would love to feel they way you do.
April 15th, 2009 at 9:27 am
Dear Tom,
It’s good that you wrote, it’ also good to hear opinions of others, but it’s also good not to listen to all of them, listen to your heart and soul. Your heart and soul contain the only truth that you need to go on. And if you listen carefully they will tell you if your love it’s real or not.
My high school sweetheart and I dated for five years and we were crazy about each other, he asked me to marry him and I said yes, but life took it’s turn, and we had to part our ways. He went to live in England and couple years later got married, I got married and went to live in USA. His marriage fell a part after five years and two kids, my marriage fell apart after seventeen years and one child. I can openly say love is what you make of it. The two of us were in touch for years, we never gave up on each other, and we still are. Twenty four years later we still want to be together, and I Believe we will. The love is the essence of life if we didn’t have it the world wouldn’t exist. Keep up your faith, don’t ever let your love die…..that is the the true essence of you regardless of your age.Love Victoria!
If you can see it and you can fell it you will live it. I wish you much love and happiness in life, a heart big as yours deserves it and will have it. Take care of yourself and your sweetheart and God bless you both!
August 6th, 2009 at 6:04 pm
hey man..we have been at the same situation tom hhe…im also riding 3 hours away via bus..hehe, yeah it made me feel more eager to be there with her always but if we put it into a long term goal process nobody would be satisfied about the things that we have gone…not telling the truth about what have happened last weekends, why are you not in the house during that day because the main reason is that… i have read that you are not oriented into a religious organization tom, but for me as a member of such religious groups it feels everything would be in its right place if we have HIM…just once try to reflect or be part of a religious group, you would be awakened to the real thing into the real world, my point is in a God centered relationship everything would be worth living and i am also proud to say this because in each day thinking of her it would make me feel uncomfortable, not an ease and many more hehe…but if we trust her with HIM or God everything would be in its right place .. just say a word to God;.. how happy it would be living away far from her trusting her to God..have faith and trust Him he is the creator… if you really love live her with a Godly image…every night..i prayed for her to be safe, to give her wisdom in her studies and the gift of skills… as what others say TRUE LOVE WAITS keep in touch with her to the ends of your carrier…Godbless us all..