Dear God,
I’m not really a religious person but I don’t care, I found this website and so I’m going to use it. My girlfriend lives 6 hours away from me on the train…the last time I saw her was yesterday and already its killing both of us not being able to see each other again soon. I’m so in love with her it’s unbelievable, I’m 15, she’s 14 and already we’ve talked about a future together, it’s just…wow. To think we spent all of sunday afternoon and sunday night and monday morning together and then I had to leave her, I can talk to her over the internet, on the phone, anything. But, I just can’t see her right now, I just want to be there with her, for her to be in my arms again once again. I want to go see her tomorrow but i’m only going to end up spending a few hours with her and I would but i don’t want to leave her again. My parents didn’t even know I went to see her, they thought I was at my friends. I love her so much and just want to see her again soon, but I can’t. And to think it’s only been maybe 36 hours ish since I last saw her…this is going to be one hard relationship. Tom - EnglandShare:
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:54 pm
Aww … that’s cute
Your first serious relationship isn’t it?
September 5th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
This is cute and sweet…but you are way too young to feel this strongly. I’m not saying you don’t love her or that you two aren’t meant for each other - but you need to become something before you completely give yourself to someone like this. This infatuation exists because you don’t see each other often. The truth is, if you spent a week in one room together, you’d be crawling to get out at the end of the week.
You’re 15, man! You should be watching sports, talking about girls with your friends, trying to sneak in a drink of beer…not acting like a love sick 25 year old!
September 6th, 2008 at 12:28 am
You are not to young to feel this way. That is a ridiculous notion. You are perfectly capable of completely giving yourself to someone else. If you spent a week together in the same room it would probably be the best week of your life. I know this because I met my fiance when I was 14, and he was 15. We have been through so much together, and experienced a lot of our teenagehood together and there’s no way our relationship would be as strong as it is if I met him later on. He was everything I ever wanted when I met him, and he still is. I love him more than anything, no matter what we have to scrape through together.
Relationships are not easy, but if you both love each other strongly and are both committed to staying together, try to stay together and you will grow so close as a couple. Make sure you are always honest, loyal and you always tell her what’s on your mind. Try to make her happy. If you both do this you will be fine. Good luck!!
September 7th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
You are never too young to feel love. im only thirteen and ive never been in love but i believe its entirely possible just beacuase your older doesnt mean that you can love properly. some say youth is wasted on the young but loving is not wasting. i’m happy for you that you have found love at such a young age that i could only dream about. I wish you two good luck
September 8th, 2008 at 2:11 am
cherish these feelings. i wish you good luck as well.
September 14th, 2008 at 4:55 am
Rock on.
If you really want this girl you are going to have to be responsible with each other. The only people really allowed to act on these feelings are adults, and since you’re not one, you’re still going to have to play by your parents rules. This is just reality. If you care for her, really, with true goodness and intent for HER well-being, and she has the same for you, you will always respect each other’s families and hopes for the future.
I have a couple staying in my flat right now that are 24 years old, been married for 3 years and have been together for 9 YEARS… since they were your age. You can be who you want to be, love who you want to love.. just always make sure you present yourself THE BEST you can at ALL TIMES with yourself, her and both of your families. If you want to make a family together, you’ll need the support of the other people you love.
Stay safe and good luck.
September 14th, 2008 at 6:26 pm
I think that no one can ever be too young to be in love, and i think that its great that you are. But being in love shouldnt have to come with the sadness you feel when you arent together. If it isnt possible to be together for longer lengths of time than you already have, dont just let yourself be sad about it - instead spend the time feeling happy about what you have. Maybe you also need to find something else that you enjoy, that you can do to fill in the time when you arent with her, and that can distract you from feeling sad about her no being there with you.
September 15th, 2008 at 3:45 am
I do know you do love her and your heart aches, Just a little advice from someone who had many heart aches including a divorce, what I have learned from relationships is that unless it is one that is happy, healthy and one that has little stress or complications involved than it is going to be a rough one and probably not the right one. I know you hate my answer, I would too if I were you reading it right now, just a little advice, if your heart is always hurting and there are many obsticles in the way than usually it won’t work, I wish you the best and I know your pain, a friend.
September 17th, 2008 at 6:34 am
I personally think that it is awesome that you feel the way that you do. You are one of few that can say that they love honestly and truly and that in itself is a gift. Your age has nothing to do with it: you clearly know what you both want and you should go fot it whole heartedly. If you don’t, you’ll be trapped in the what-if bus your whole life. How depressing!!!
Good luck young one.
September 17th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
Love is difficult to find, so cherish these moments. Even the pain if it comes, because in these most emotional moments are the greatest points in our lives.
September 24th, 2008 at 5:06 am
No having is exquisite - you feel love for her even more because you can’t be together all the time - enjoy it!
Imagine eating ice cream - good - now imagine eating ice cream after being in the desert for a week - WOW!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Seriously, this is not the sort of Prayer you need to be asking for. Ask God to heal your heart, not to satisfy your cravings. This is not a healthy set of feelings. Love is a beautiful thing, but you are not ready, and she is DEFINATELY not ready. Give it two or three more years at the very least, and pray to God to help you become a better person rather than to get what you want.
September 27th, 2008 at 9:59 am
Say helllo to the palm sisters
September 28th, 2008 at 2:03 am
i know exactly what ur goin through… my love lives four hours away…i never get to see him…
Young love is tough…im only fourteen and my boyfriend is 16…
ur not alone in the world and sometimes i cry and beg the Lord to let me just see him one
more time…
i hope ur dreams come true
and also to the adults… young love is not puppy love nor is it the real deal…
its in the middle…
God Bless
Shannen
xx
October 3rd, 2008 at 4:55 pm
Hey man, i feel the same way about my girlfriend, she’s 15 and i’m 14 though, we live something like 8 hours away by plane… i know it’s real love because i spend every waking second thinking about her… i get maybe 4 hours of sleep a night, i can’t stand not talking to her.
Don’t get discouraged, true love will win.
October 23rd, 2008 at 9:21 pm
I don`t think this is a good ideea… I mean i had a relationship at 14 and a half, i stayed with the girl one year… It`s allmost 3 years from that relationship and i still want to be with her. But good luck to you and to your girlfriend.
October 29th, 2008 at 11:08 am
stay strong for all us young people.
if this is ment to be it will win out against all odds.
maybe tell your parents though mate. they could help you out with getting to see
her more.
god bless and good luck.